Top 5 Myths About Kink Debunked

What is it about kinky sex that makes a person deem it as weird, dangerous, crazy, or downright wrong? The answer to this is fear of the unknown. What we don’t know can scare us but only if we don’t face our fears head on. If you want to try something to spice up your love life do not let anyone dispel you from trying. Kinky sex is nothing to fear but it may be one of those topics that make you feel a bit skeptical. What you are about to read will answer some of the pressing questions you have about what kinky sex really entails. Here are the ‘Top 5 Myths About Kink: Debunked’.

  1. Kinky Sex Is Unsafe: To be completely honest, kinky sex acts can be dangerous but that is why it is important to communicate with your partner about boundaries, limits, health conditions, and even a safe word. Safe words are not only there for a reason but to enjoy kinky sex is to consent to both people having fun. Kinky sex is safe, if done right, meaning that both partners agree about not crossing any boundaries, using a safe word or signal when something doesn’t feel right.
  2. BDSM Is Costly: Majority of people who are into BDSM have spent a substantial amount of money on equipment, clothing, supplies, and more because they wish to enhance their BDSM experience. Some of these people have decided that they love experimenting with BDSM and others are BDSM veterans. If you are interested in BDSM as a beginner, you do not have to spend a ton of money on what you think you need to ‘do it right.’ In fact, supplies that you can use for BDSM can be found in your very own home. For instance, your hands can spank, you can tie a scarf around your eyes to blindfold, you can probably find stockings to use as stockings, you can find things around the house to make your experiences fun and cheap.
  3. Kinky Sex Doesn’t Exists Except in Porn: For everyone who believes this, “oh boy, were you misled.” Kinky sex happens everywhere around the world not just in porn. The reason why you probably don’t hear about it much is because it is not the first things you tell a person. Imagine going on a first date and being told that your date either has a fetish that you have never heard of or likes tying dates up with a heavy chain and gets turned on by watching them struggle. Having an active sex life or even a private one is a matter of privacy. In order to make yourself vulnerable enough to tell your partner your past experiences, you must get to a trusting state first. The only difference between your sex life and porn is that porn is a public for the world to see.
  4. Liking Kinky Sex Means That You Are Not Normal: If everyone likes different things when it comes to sex is there really a such thing as normal? If you are worried about what others may think about you- don’t. A lot of people that are interested in kinky sex have are in their right mind, have a good head on their shoulders, but just want to explore. There is nothing wrong with that. These people take a liking to kink because it allows them to escape their normal routine of their everyday life. This is called escapism. It is the equivalent of coming home from a long day of work and turning on the Tv to watch your favorite show. You watch it to take a break from the stresses of the day and to wind down. For most of us, that is what the definition of kinky sex is.
  5. Fetishes Are for Perverted People: If you have a fetish you are not perverted. We all have the capabilities to act that way but not all of us like to act creepy with our pants down, looking out the windows with binoculars at the neighbor taking a shower. If we do it is because it gives up enjoyment. It is empowering to release the inner freak from within instead of holding it in. Only then can you deem yourself perverted because then you must pretend to be something you aren’t and that’s when the real pervasion comes in.

Know any other myths about kink? Need them debunked? You can debunk them yourself by leaving them in the comments section.

 

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