If you have been in a relationship for a while, you might be looking for ways to spice things up. Or maybe you and your partner are just adventurous types. Either way, role play can give you tons of excitement in the bedroom.
When it comes to role play, the possibilities are endless. Naughty nurse? Boss and secretary? Baby and daddy? There are so many out there, it may be more a matter of finding the perfect scenario than coming up with suggestions. But if you are having trouble figuring what works for you, here are some great roleplay ideas for you to choose from.
Your Sci-Fi Fantasy
There is a lot you can do to develop a sci fi fantasy. If you have a favorite sci fi movie or tv show, you can dress up as the characters and incorporate a personality that you think best captures the way they would act.
You can also create your own sci fi fantasy. Think of an alien that has several tentacles and imagine what they can do. Or perhaps you can use other supernatural powers to take your sexy role play session to the next level.
Sexual Role Playing Character Ideas
If you choose to act as characters from a movie or television show, it doesn’t have to be sci-fi in theme. There are plenty of characters that we know and love that also work well in the bedroom. Here are some of the most popular.
- Princess Leah as Jabba’s Slave: Carrie Fisher’s sci-fi gypsy look has been recreated many times; and with good reason. It has been the stuff of fantasies for years! Bring it to life by doing your own take on her outfit and make sure your Han Solo is close by.
- Bogie and Bacall: Bogie and Bacall were not only married in real life, they appeared in many movies together which resulted in plenty of sexy adventures. Get your loving on the run by putting yourself in a similar film noire.
- Cleopatra: Cleopatra is one of the sexiest rulers of all time. It’s not difficult to get her look and play it out by eating grapes on a throne held by your slaves or Mark Antony himself.
- Harley Quinn and the Joker: If you want to get your superhero freak on, the Joker and Harley Quinn have one of the sexiest and most volatile relationships of all time. Dress up to be these super villains and try your hand at couple’s role play ideas that are kinky and exciting.
- Hermione and Ron Weasley: Take your idea of fantasy to the next level by doing it as wizards in training. And for a little bit of adventure, throw Harry into the mix!
Fake a Threesome
Many couples dream of having a threesome but getting a willing participant can be challenging. Well, you might be surprised to find out how effective it can be to role play this scenario.
This type of role play sex can be done by talking to your partner to stimulate what a third person might be doing. This can be very erotic, and the use of a dildo and other sex toys can take it to the next level.
Slave and Master
Another idea for sexy role-play is bondage. Bondage can be quite exciting, and it is an avenue many couples enjoy exploring. If you want to try your hand at some slave and master play, here are a few things you should consider:
- Cuffing or Restraining Your Partner: This can be done with handcuffs, rope, or full bed restraints. It’s a great way to have your partner give up control so you can have your way with them.
- Teasing Your Partner and Not Letting Them Cum: Orgasm denial is a turn on for many. Use your hands or different toys to bring your partner to the brink without letting them reach that point of no return until they are begging you to get them off.
- Dominate Them: There are many things you can do to dominate your partner including whipping and spanking them, abusing them verbally and forcing them to do things for you. This can be a turn on for you both.
- Blindfold Them: Blindfolding your partner leaves them helpless and provides another way for you to exert control. You can do anything while they are blindfolded including forcing them to have sex with a strange partner.
Animal Sex Role Play Ideas
This one might not be for everyone, but it may surprise you to find out how wild it is to have animalistic sex. This can be even more exciting and realistic when you use animal tail butt plugs.
Not only can these butt plugs (complete with tails) simulate an animal experience, but they provide stimulation for the wearer. When worn by a woman, they can make the pussy tighter providing more pleasure to a man during sex.
My Dad’s Best Friend
If an older man, younger woman situation turns you on, you may find this to be the best of all the sexy role play ideas in this article. This can be fun when played out either way…with the younger woman seducing the older man or the older man seducing the younger woman.
Establishing a previous relationship that makes sex unlikely adds the element of surprise which can be an endless turn on for many people.
Cherry Popping Adventures
Everyone knows how special the first time can be. One of the best role-play scenarios is recreating the first time.
The person you’re with can be scared and insecure and you can guide them through, teaching them what they need to know and what they need to do. Then both of you can explore all the wonders that come with having a good time.
The Cheating Housewife
Sex can be so much more exciting if you think you might get caught! You can play the role of the cheating housewife and have your partner come in for a quickie pretending he’s a neighbor, the mailman, the delivery driver or any other person that may stop by.
The Pizza Man
Of course, having an unexpected person drop in doesn’t necessarily have to be a cheating situation. The pizza guy or delivery guy (or girl) can unexpectedly drop by adding to the element of surprise and making things equally as exciting.
Just have your partner come in and answer the door in your most erotic lingerie, or a robe with nothing on underneath. Then begin seducing this unexpected stranger for a night you and your partner are sure to remember for some time.
And if the fantasy involved pizza, you can both have a terrific meal afterwards!
Escort and Gigilo
It’s the oldest and sexiest profession of all time! This fantasy can be acted out when the two of you meet in a hotel room or even your own bedroom. The escort should be dressed up in sexy lingerie accordingly.
She (assuming the escort is a woman) will have to act on your every whim, just as an escort would. An extra element of excitement is added in assuming that you are both strangers.
Cop and Criminal
Who knows what you might be arrested for, but this is a great way to use handcuffs and other BDSM tools of choice. Of course, one of you should be dressed as a sexy police man or woman to truly act out the role.
One Night Stand: A one night stand can be quite thrilling. The idea of hooking up with someone you don’t know for a quick wham bam thank you ma’am with no strings attached is hot, no matter how long you’ve been in a relationship.
The nice thing is, you can act this out with the person you love.
You can use your own bedroom as the supposed ‘meet up spot’ and pretend you are strangers, or you can make a whole night of it, meeting up in a club and having naughty sex in a bathroom or inside a car.
Boss and Secretary
The sexy secretary is another well known character of sexscapades. She is known to interact with her boss, seducing him in the secrecy of his office, hoping that they won’t get discovered.
This is also one of the best roleplay scenarios for incorporating S & M. The boss can punish his secretary for something she did wrong at work or the secretary can dominate, teasing the boss until he agrees to give her a raise.
Cave people may not have had all the clothing, perfume and plastic surgery that most people feel they need to make them sexy, but we can be pretty certain the sex they had was hot, fast and animalistic. That’s why cave people may be one of the best role playing ideas for couples.
Think of putting on your best Flintstone wear and engaging in some animalistic cave sex you and your partner are sure to remember for some time to come.
A lot of people get turned on by the thought of being with someone much older or younger than they are. You can do this by acting as a headmaster and student, young kid and an older neighbor or even baby daddy role play will work.
Think of who you are going to be in your age role play and create an exaggeratedly sexy outfit that establishes your identity. If you are doing baby daddy or mommy role play, a diaper or oversized underwear may be the perfect accessory.
Princess and Knight in Shining Armor
For those who love to live in a world of fantasy, nothing will be better than acting out role playing ideas as a princess and knight in shining armor. The knight can pretend to rescue the princess from any number of possible fates and the two can then ride off into the sunset to a castle where things will be further explored in the royal bedroom.
You can take your princess and knight fantasy to the next level by roleplaying as Princess Buttercup and Westley from The Princess Bride.
Doctor and Patient
It is not unusual for men and women to develop crushes on their doctors. After all, they are wise, caring…and often rich. Plus, they are familiar with just about every part of your body.
A doctor and patient or scenario is one that can play out well in the bedroom starting from the moment he asks, “Where does it hurt?” Take it from there to let the healing begin.
Making Sure Your Fantasy Lives Up to Your Expectations
Of course, you can act out your role playing scenario with words alone, but here are a few things you will want to do to really take it to the next level.
Dress the Part: It’s one thing to act like the horny secretary, the escort or the princess, but really dressing the part will help you both become immersed in the fantasy. It will add to the illusion of being in another world and having sex with a different partner.
And we’re not just talking about the ladies here. Men should get in on the fun and dress the part as well!
Start from Scratch: The pizza delivery man doesn’t show up in your bedroom, nor does the knight in shining armor or the many other sexy strangers that make your motor hum. Add to the intrigue by starting with the couple’s first encounter. Then take it into the bedroom and beyond.
Immerse Yourself in the Role: Once you decide to become your fantasy role, really buy into it. Become the person your significant other fantasizes about and do everything you can to become it. This will help both of you enjoy yourself more.
Role playing is a great way to open up to your partner. Once you realize what your significant other really likes, it will help in the bedroom, whether you are role playing or not. It will also help you to get to know each other better and become more intimate.
What sexual fantasies do you have? Why not open up to your partner so you can explore each other’s kinks. You will be surprised to find out the ways in which it will improve your sex life and your relationship.