How Do I Get Into BDSM? A Guide for Beginners, Because the Most Important Thing You Do Is Probably Not What You Think If you have ever considered getting into BDSM, now may be as good a time as any to take the plunge. However, if you think that getting into BDSM involves showing up at a dungeon and trying…
Many of us have an idea of what BDSM is, but how many of us have really explored it with our partner? Probably more than you think. In fact, if you have ever engaged in sexual activities that involved any type of blindfolding, spanking or restraint, congratulations, you can consider yourself included in this number. But admittedly, there is a…
BDSM is defined as a variety of sexual practices that integrate bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism. When engaging in BDSM with a partner, one party is typically the sub or submissive while the other is the dom or dominant. The dominant partner will be the one who tells their partner what to do and takes charge of the actions…
We’ve all seen pictures of women decked out in leather and high heels using whips, chains and other accessories that come in handy when taming a submissive. These are sexy images that are alluring and empowering enough to inspire almost every woman to occasionally slip into something…um…less comfortable and take control. But being a femdom woman is about more than…
BDSM had been a taboo to talk about up until now, after the screening of Fifty Shades of Grey, one could not help but want their partner to do something similar to them in the bed room just as Jamie Dornan. Try out BDSM with your partner with BDSM lingerie which is meant to give you the thrills of BDSM.…
Daddy called me into his office late that afternoon, I was standing in the middle of his office, my doubled breast exposed in a black corset, that shaped and highlighted their curve. I wore a black g string that matched the corset, and my mouth was covered in a leather gag, Daddy didn’t like when I talked back. I wasn’t…
Ever had that light bulb moment while watching a movie, or reading a book and quickly feel it dim when you remember that you are too shy, or lack the proverbial “balls” to implement it in your sex life? Well, a friend of mine was telling me how she’d always secretly lusted after the idea of being a sub but…
I often hear people talking about their curiosity in the BDSM department, and as a semi-experienced sub, I am always quite amazed when the most frequent question is, how to create the right energy, or scenery. With the popularity of movies like, Fifty Shades of Grey, Secretary and many more, there is a growing popular misconception that a “red room”…
It’s pretty easy to want something, for instance I wanted a Tiffany’s ring this morning, unfortunately getting it can prove to be an entirely different hassle. Many people often tell me how nice it would be to “afford” the BDSM lifestyle, and as you imagine I am decidedly left a little confused. “afford?” I often ask before they elaborate by…
You know that there’s more to life than just the vanilla, right? You wouldn’t settle for one flavor of ice cream, and you won’t settle for one flavor of sex. When it comes to fetishes, there’s never been a more welcoming time to start taking a look at the stuff that really turns you on – but that doesn’t mean…